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You may have heard from peers that “shoplifting is no big deal”
or that “everybody does it” but we assure you
that anyone saying that, has not been caught shoplifting.
The reality is that shoplifting is a very big deal
especially to kids who get caught.
Here is what kids say who have been caught shoplifting:
“My parents are so disappointed in me”
“Stealing was my lowest point”
“I’m a statistic”
“The hardest thing is the way my parents look at me,
like a bad person”
“I’m a good kid. I can’t believe I was so
stupid”
“I’m so embarrassed”
“My friend said that if we got caught, she would say
it was her alone. She didn’t.”
“My grandmother thought I was the best, now I think
she looks down on me”
“What hurt the most is the way my mother cried when
she saw me in handcuffs”
“I wanted to make something of myself, now I blew it”
“This one action will stick with me for the rest of
my life”
“Now my parents feel they can’t trust me”
“The risk is just not worth the reward”
“I never realized how much this one stupid act could
cost me and my family”
Shoplifting may seem tempting. But remember, when you shoplift,
you risk the chance of losing trust and self-respect, a part
of yourself which has far greater value than any item you
could take from a store. Don’t kid yourself. Shoplifting
is a crime with serious consequences.
If you think you may have a problem with shoplifting or have
been recently caught, we encourage you to enroll
in a program (with your parent’s permission) which
will help you get back on track.
Encourage Others To Do The Same
You now realize that shoplifting is a “big deal”.
Talk to your friends about what they have to lose by shoplifting
and let them know that shoplifting is not all right with you.
In addition, encourage your friends to join you in participating
in the Honest To Goodness Project, a project aimed at preventing
kids from shoplifting while building character.
Help prevent shoplifting by participating in the Honest
To Goodness Project.
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Drugs, Alcohol, Date Rape, Cyber Sex. . .in addition to all
the dangerous and life-threatening issues parents need to
be aware of today and discuss with their kids, it may be hard
to think about taking the time to talk to your kids about
shoplifting. After all, you have raised them well and they
know stealing is wrong. But juvenile shoplifting is not about
knowing right from wrong. It’s about acceptance, self-worth,
thrill seeking and the pressures they face from family, school
and peers. Even when they know shoplifting is wrong, when
their lives become stressful temptation becomes greater. At
that point they often let themselves believe that shoplifting
isn’t hurting anyone, that stores can afford the losses
and it will be just this one time.
To avoid the future hardships for your child, yourself and
your family, it is imperative that you take the time to discuss
shoplifting with your children. Let them know stealing is
a crime and you value honesty and integrity. They will listen.
If you think your child may have a problem with shoplifting
or has been recently caught, we encourage you to enroll
your child in a program which will help him/her get back
on track. Learn
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Home Study Programs (JUVENILES)
To help youth ages 11 to 17 identify the feelings, thoughts and actions which led them to shoplift,
parents can enroll their child in the Youth Educational Shoplifting Program (Y.E.S. Program) and help their
child stay out of trouble by learning how to make better choices for themselves and their future. Even if you
think that shoplifting is not a real problem for your child and are telling yourself that he/she won't do it
again, this program will be helpful because it will help them deal with the peer pressure and temptation which
will always be there.
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For further information or to request a Parent Education
brochure about helping to prevent kids from shoplifting, visit
the Honest To
Goodness Project.
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In today’s society where divorce is high, where more
homes have two working parents, where family-time is at a
premium and the list of threats to our children’s welfare
continues to grow, it is imperative that all who touch children’s
lives take an active role in educating the whole child.
It is clear, that like it or not, the lines between the parents’
job, the schools job and the communities’ job have become
blurred. Schools often need to be an extension of the parent.
Community-based organizations often need to be an extension
of both parent and school. Each touch point in a child’s
life needs to have a backup system so that when one falls
short, another reaches out and our children do not suffer
because we thought that was someone else’s job.
Why discuss shoplifting in particular?
Shoplifting is a prevalent and meaningful issue among youth.
89% of teens say they know others who shoplift and 66% say
they hang out with those kids. It is a topic that even “good”
kids personally relate too because most know someone who did
it and got away with it, have been tempted to do it themselves
or have actually done it. In addition, in today’s society,
the opportunity to shoplift presents itself in everyday life
and children are particularly vulnerable to the temptation
to “get something for nothing”. Shoplifting for
teens is not just a black and white question of right and
wrong. It is strongly influenced by peer pressure and kids’
growing sense of entitlement. In today’s society they
find it easy to rationalize shoplifting as “no big deal”
when their parents and schools don’t talk about it and
they can proudly say, “at least I’m not doing
drugs”.
Why is shoplifting a good topic for character-education?
The study of shoplifting is an objective vehicle for the
teaching of effective and reasonable morals and values. Regardless
of the ethical or guiding philosophy to which families subscribe,
shoplifting is universally considered “wrong”.
Because it is considered universally “wrong” and
is universally “meaningful” to kids, it is a particularly
appropriate way to look at ethics.
In addition to empowering kids to say no to shoplifting,
the discussion of shoplifting teaches honesty, integrity,
trustworthiness and a sense of justice and fairness which
are critical values that enable young men and women to develop
positive relationships and become good citizens.
The discussion of shoplifting in conjunction with character-education
is a practical demonstration which can be used in our public
schools while maintaining the “neutral and secular manner”
required by constitutional law.
For information about starting a program in your school or
agency visit the Honest To Goodness Project.
For information, member benefits or to become a member of
the National Shoplifting Prevention Coalition.
For public education and statistics about the shoplifting
problem visit the National
Learning and Resource Center.
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Apprehend and Prosecute Shoplifting
Offenders as often as practical.
Expense, time, liability . . . we know that actively apprehending
and prosecuting shoplifters can be a time consuming, difficult
and costly task. However, a decision not
to apprehend and prosecute shoplifters comes at a significant
cost to your bottom line and the communities you serve.
Retailers have not only the right but the responsibility
to apprehend and prosecute shoplifters as often as practical.
The reasons are clear:
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The most important factor in determining
if a person will shoplift again is their experience the
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Complacency to shoplifting sends a message to our youth
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Complacency will bring repeat offenders back to steal.
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Complacency tempts paying customers to try their hand
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Complacency tells loyal paying customers that the company
doesn’t mind if some people take merchandise without
paying because the losses will be made up for by higher
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If the retailer, who is the victim, doesn’t take
a strong stand against shoplifting, then those criminal
justice and community-based agencies who could and would
support retailers in preventing shoplifting will adopt
the attitude of “if they don’t care, why should
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Support Anti-Shoplifting Campaigns and Community Programs
In addition to hurting your bottom line, shoplifting hurts
the communities you serve. It is imperative that retailers
support community anti-shoplifting campaigns, school-based
prevention programs and secondary prevention programs in the
courts.
Current security measures can be effective; however, having
people stop themselves from shoplifting is
less time consuming, less costly and more effective on a permanent
basis.
For information about implementing a juvenile shoplifting
prevention program in the communities you serve, visit the
Honest To
Goodness Project.
To learn about the National
Shoplifting Prevention Coalition, view member benefits
or to become a member, click
here.
For information, research and statistics about the shoplifting
problem visit the National
Learning and Resource Center.
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With all of the responsibilities on law enforcement today,
it is understandable that responding to shoplifting may not
be the top priority within many police departments. However,
law enforcement’s response to shoplifting plays an important
role in achieving truly effective police-community partnerships
which are essential in keeping our neighborhoods safe and
crime-free.
When law enforcement is complacent about shoplifting it sends
a message to the individuals and youth in their communities
that crime pays, which in turn, ultimately results in more
crime.
Law enforcement’s decision to respond to shoplifting
in a serious manner is a decision to let people know that
criminal behavior on any level, in your community, is not
tolerated. This sends a message loud and clear to potential
future criminals and serves to help decrease the current and
future crime rate in your area.
We understand that reducing or solving the problem of shoplifting
cannot be achieved by law enforcement alone. A well-rounded
strategy which encompasses the entire community is critical.
However, because law enforcement serves as a visible, positive
role model for the community at large, it is crucial for them
to “set the standard” in their response to shoplifting
in order to reduce this extremely prevalent crime and increase
the overall quality of life for the community.
For information about implementing a juvenile shoplifting
prevention program in the communities you serve, visit the
Honest To Goodness Project.
To utilize an “offense-specific” educational
rehabilitation program for adults or juveniles caught shoplifting
as part of your diversion agreement, visit the Criminal
& Juvenile Justice Center.
To learn about the National
Shoplifting Prevention Coalition, view member benefits
or to become a member, click
here.
For information, research and statistics about the shoplifting
problem visit the National Learning and Resource
Center.
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While most criminal and juvenile justice professionals strive
to handle their shoplifting cases with appropriate and effective
action, the reality is that with the overwhelming number of
cases on their dockets, the crime of shoplifting often falls
to the “low crime on the totem pole”. This leads
to shoplifting cases too often being disposed of with less
effective sanctions or even a simple warning and release.
While this practice may aid the court system in reducing
their caseloads for the immediate future, to impact long term
shoplifter recidivism the courts will gain most from sentencing
offenders to an “offense-specific” educational
program along with other sanctions.
Admissions by shoplifters in a confidential survey reveal
that:
- Shoplifters who continually repeat the offense want to
stop, but are often to ashamed or afraid to ask for help.
Because these offenders don’t often voluntarily enroll
in an educational program, we must rely on the courts to
sentence offenders to receive formal, structured education
at the time when they will be most receptive to it….that
is, when caught or prosecuted.
- The most important factor in determining if a person
will shoplift again is their experience the time before.
If shoplifters are merely given a “slap on the wrist”
when sent to court, it is more likely that they will repeat
the act and ultimately end up back in the court system.
“Offense-specific" education programs for shoplifting
offenders have proven to be an effective way to reduce recidivism
because effective programs address the “root causes”
of shoplifting and give individuals an understanding about
the problem as it relates to society and themselves.
Psychological profiles and admissions by shoplifters have
revealed that 1 out of 3 “first-offender” shoplifters
are “at risk” of repeating the offense. Therefore,
it is in the best interest of the community to require the
offender to participate in a substantive educational rehabilitation
program, in addition to other sanctions such as fines, court
costs, community service, probation or jail.
To utilize an “offense-specific” educational
rehabilitation program for adults or juveniles caught
shoplifting as part of a plea bargain agreement, diversion
agreement, probation or sentence, visit the Criminal
& Juvenile Justice Center.
To learn about the National
Shoplifting Prevention Coalition, view member benefits
or to become a member, click
here.
For information, research and statistics about the shoplifting
problem visit the National Learning and Resource
Center.
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Where do I turn? Who could possibly understand? Why am I
treated just as a criminal, not as an addict? Why do people
addicted to illegal drugs get drug “treatment”
as part of their sentence but people who are addicted to shoplifting
merely get “punished”? Who can possibly help me?
These questions resonate in every habitual shoplifter’s
mind. They feel angry and persecuted by the system as well
as ashamed and isolated by their own behavior.
“I wish I were an alcoholic instead of a shoplifter.”
Sounds like an outrageous statement but for a person struggling
with a shoplifting “addiction” it makes perfect
sense. “If I were an alcoholic, people would understand
my problem and know how to help me and there would be places
I could turn for help”. The irony is subtle but very
real for people who are caught up in a shoplifting addiction.
The lack of understanding about shoplifting as anything more
than a petty crime is an impediment to prevention as well
as recovery for many. Moreover, even the people who have sought
psychotherapy tell us they are just too ashamed to tell even
a therapist of this behavior. They are truly marginalized.
They feel truly isolated.
Call to Action for the Mental Health Community:
- Sponsor and participate in research in order to understand
more about shoplifting to ultimately provide better service
to the people that are suffering.
- Pursue professional education specific to shoplifting
and the root causes of this self-destructive behavior, which
for habitual shoplifters masquerades as self-nourishing.
- Complete certification and enroll in the NASP registry
of psychotherapists committed to helping those struggling
with this specific behavior.
To preview NASP’s self-help and support services available
to patients dealing with a shoplifting problem visit the National
Self-Help & Support Center.
To learn about the National
Shoplifting Prevention Coalition, become a member or learn
about NASP’s registry of psychotherapists, click
here or click here to email us.
Please write Psychotherapist in the subject
line of your email.
For information, research and statistics about the shoplifting
problem visit the National Learning and Resource
Center.
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With the hierarchy of problems facing community leaders and
legislators today, it’s no surprise that shoplifting
falls short on the list of “things to actively pursue
and address”. However, because of its prevalence, the
current lack of interest in dealing with and addressing shoplifting
will most certainly serve to undermine standards of honesty,
integrity and character within communities. Imagine a community
in which 1 in 11 people, from the stock boy to the stockbroker,
have learned through “casual” shoplifting that
crime pays. Changing our society’s all too casual approach
to shoplifting requires a national effort. Community leaders
and legislators can add significant value to any shoplifting
prevention effort.
- Introduce legislation that requires the use of “offense-specific”
education programs in the sentencing of both juvenile and
adult shoplifting offenders.
- Invite local retail loss prevention personnel to speak
to your community and its leaders at events such as those
sponsored by the local public library, the PTA or your Chamber
of Commerce.
- Urge independent retailers and Mall operators to participate
in the community’s efforts by sponsoring education
programs and community “toolkits” aimed at shoplifting
prevention.
- Help community youth programs, whether secular or faith-based,
to offer programs for kids to examine their own character
using the issue of shoplifting as a tool for the study of
ethics.
- Urge local police departments to respond promptly to
your local merchant’s calls when they apprehend a
shoplifter.
- Implement a community action plan which engages individuals
in the prevention of shoplifting.
To learn about utilizing juvenile shoplifting prevention
programs in the communities you serve, visit the Honest
To Goodness Project.
To learn about utilizing educational rehabilitation programs
for adults and juveniles caught shoplifting in the communities
you serve, visit the Criminal & Juvenile Justice
Center.
To learn about the National
Shoplifting Prevention Coalition, view member benefits
or to become a member, click
here.
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If you are a person struggling with the fear, shame and agony
of a shoplifting problem, we can help you. We know that your
shoplifting problem is having a negative effect on you and
your family and we want you to know that you are not alone
in dealing with this problem. We understand that while you
have committed a crime, you are probably not a career criminal.
Rather, you are most likely someone who is dealing with stresses
and pressures in your life and are simply looking for a way
to give yourself some relief with a “gift” or
“lift” you feel you need or deserve. Unfortunately,
as you know or will find out, the self-nourishment you think
you are getting from shoplifting is actually quite self-destructive.
With NASP’s 25 years of experience dealing with people
with a shoplifting problem, we have come to understand the
motivations and the difficulty in both living with a shoplifting
problem and in coming to terms with getting help.
Even if you think that shoplifting is not a real problem
for you and you are telling yourself that you won’t
do it again, beware that the temptation will always be there.
We encourage you to complete our Self-Assessment.
Seek help now to learn the reasons why you
are shoplifting and what you specifically need to do to prevent
future incidents.
To learn more about NASP Self-Help and Support Services,
click here.
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